@bendurso yep it is now there, and pointing to something I had played around with this morning...
i edited it to point to the application support folder and it works. so basically all this is what the installer has to do and we should be fine! now even the IR from the convolution reverb got loaded correctly as I placed the AudioFiles folder into there aswell!
thank you so much @bendurso & @d-healey, you are a gem.
Yesterday I didn't know shit, now I have a LinnDrum clone with fancy flashing pads and 8 bit grit <3